First you have to find one that fits. Most don't. Then when you do find one that fits sometimes it doesn't make you feel the way you want it to make you feel. It's so hard to find a dress that not only fits but makes you feel great when you wear it. Had a date last night that fit but didn't make me feel the way I want to feel about a guy. While he could have been perfect for me, I found myself wanting the date to be over, instead of wanting it to never end. Big sigh.